CitiesSan Diego
Home-care help in San Diego
Updated September 16, 2026. Reviewed September 16, 2026 against public CDSS, DHCS, Medicare.gov, VA, and CareScout 2025 California tables. County wages, hours, and wait times still change. Official .gov pages decide.
San Diego searches mix military benefits, border families, and North County commutes. VA Aid and Attendance is a federal path. IHSS is a San Diego County path when that is the home. Keep those packets separate. Use the county IHSS page, then licensed agencies, then statewide cost medians.
If you are the adult child
If you live in Orange County and the parent lives in Oceanside, file IHSS in San Diego County. A parent in El Cajon does not use Imperial County. Border-adjacent addresses still follow the California county line, not a hospital in Tijuana or a clinic in Orange County.
Settings in this metro
Military and veteran households are common. VA Aid and Attendance is a federal path, not an IHSS wage and not a CareScout row. Price private home care and communities with the statewide medians, then open VA and county pages separately.
County IHSS
Cost of care
Setting costs
Licensed agencies
Official California sources
Official program pages: CDSS: In-Home Supportive Services, CDSS: IHSS for children, County IHSS offices, CDSS: IHSS providers, CDSS: county IHSS wage rates, CDSS: provider orientation, CDSS: Electronic Visit Verification, CDSS: Electronic Services Portal, DHCS: Medi-Cal, Apply for Medi-Cal, BenefitsCal, CDSS: hearing requests, CDSS: forms catalog, CDSS: IHSS overtime and workweek, DDS: regional centers.